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Personal Development Coaching B.S. What does it Mean?
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minute to set this up for you. It will make a lot more sense when we’re done so its very important that you read first before I explain..
“There is never any profit in making a list of why we can’t do something or why we can’t capitalize on emerging opportunities“-Dan Kennedy
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Now if you’re not sure who Dan Kennedy is, he’s one smart marketing genius. His NO B.S. marketing slogan alone is awful catchy and very well known in the marketing world.
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However I have to say I used to believe the quote above, Now I have to challenge it.
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It occured to me the other night when I happened to be a guest speaker on a live conference call for a good friend of mine. It was during the Q & A session and someone asked me about negatives and the mind.
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Then it dawned on me like morning sunshine
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Personal Development Coaching B.S. From A Year Ago
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Let me take you back to over a year ago in my life.
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My life wasn’t horrible but It certainly wasn’t where I wanted it to stay, let’s put it that way.
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Well I learned somewhere in my studies that the human mind can think in negatives for some reason a lot easier than it can in positives. (At least the average person that holds true)
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So I did a little personal development study.
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I drew a line down the center of a clean peice of paper.
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I then wrote down 10 things that I was tired of in my life and didn’t want any
more. I got into detail too.
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Let me give you some examples:
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1) I’m tired of being broke
2) I’m tired of being in bad relationships
3) I’m sick of my job
4) I’m sick of all of the negativity in my life
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You get my point. These weren’t my area’s of my “no want’s” however I can assure you the above are general area’s of interest for lots of people.
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Now here is the best part.
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Write down the 10 things your sick of in your life but then next to them write out the exact opposite!
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That’s right.
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Once you have focused your energy on what you don’t want in your life, then write down the exact opposites, you will then have a much easier time focusing on the Do Wants in your life.
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How successful has this almost too simple little study been for me?
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7 out of the 10 things on my list have already come true in my life.
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I’d say that’s a success so far very & it has been very motivational.
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I kept the list on my desk for the past year and glanced at it from time to time too.
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Boy the subconcious mind is a powerful thing.
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One of my good friends and millionaire has said to me many times, “make paper and pen your best friend.”
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Now I get it.
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Take a few minutes right now to do this exercise and see how powerful it is just in being able to acknowledge what you DO want in your life.
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I believe you’ll feel a sense of empowerment almost right away. Why? remember the B.S.? Well it stands for personal development coaching belief system and this exercise will absolutely help reinforce your belief system to unstoppable proportions!
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Oh and Dan Kennedy-I took his quote out of context obviously, however he is right on the money that if you don’t dream about what you DO want your life to look like and it’s accomplishements that you most certaianly won’t experience it because you won’t seize the opportunities that arise!
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Now get to it player.
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